Why do women rant about men need to be "men" while they are doing less and less?

Is it just me or does anyone find that hypocritical? What I mean is that there are alot of women (including mine) who feel that a man should take the heavier load of the bills, if not all the bills, but still do chores around the house. It's funny how some women say times have changed but when it comes to a man paying for all or more times "have not" changed. Among african americans per say, it is a statistical fact that women do better or just as good as the men in the job market now and days. So they have the same if not better opportunities as African American men. Then most of them do not handle working and working around the house well at the same time. Alot of women now and days have to work because most desire to live high maintenance lifestyles. To make a long story short, I feel women need to step it up and quit being hypocrites like for example saying that they cannot do much around the house since they work and spend their time off of work running around to stores, shopping etc.